When is it time to let go?

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When is it time to let go?

When is it time to let go? When major losses come in life, whether that might be from a death, relationship, even children growing up – a time of letting go is necessary in going forward. Trying to recreate, what can not be created again signals for letting go. In the event of a death, this process could be years in finding a point of letting go, from a relationship – allowing and accepting each of you to move on without judgment. Children growing up, allowing the experience of the future to be viewed through the eyes of your children as parents, trusting them and allowing them to grow and be their best version of parenthood they possess.

With each experience of letting go, questions have to be answered and forgiven of your own being of self. Asking the questions, at times in receiving answers and at times, accepting answers will no longer stall you moving forward. Waiting on another will not take you to where the next journey awaits. Making room for your future is aligned to being able to let go and accept as is, the past unconditionally. This process not only frees you, but also allows all parts of the past to be free also in relation to people, places and events. Appreciating and loving what has been, creates the room for new to enter and expand. Find a complete exit from the heart, a place you can hold in memory, rather than open to allow any wounds to continue to seep from your heart. Spirit looks into your heart and sees what is healed and the passage to bring into your existence new experiences which will be free of the loss.

Love those you have lost, they will forever have a heart space just for them. Learn from those relationships of the past and bless new unions for all as their greatest and highest optimal experience. Children will grow and so will you. Future cycles of life should be experienced as a future cycle, rather than a recreation of what you have already known, be close but not intrusive in their experience of growth.

Be free to step forward, a new journey waits. A new path of learning, adjusting and expanding has opened to you. Without a replacement or recreation of the one who is gone, only new again. All of the attachment of a physical loss will not bring back the one you loved, though the space can heal and be sealed in your heart or open and wounded keeping you in a cycle of the past. As a child grows, and you become the observer, rather than the caregiver – your knowledge and wisdom when asked will be gifted forward to your child.

Letting go is love expanding and allowing love to heal and lift you from the past. Are you ready to let go? If not, the time will come without judgment. If you are, spread your wings to fly into new heights on your pursuit to sail the winds of freedom, always going forward and if by some chance in your future a part of your past crosses your path, know that all is well in flight.

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